The Ultimate Guide To Buying A Sex Doll For Your Partner

The Ultimate Guide To Buying A Sex Doll For Your Partner | SxDolled

The Ultimate Guide To Buying A Sex Doll For Your Partner

May 24, 2023

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

  • Do your research
  • Your gift shouldn’t be a carbon copy of you
  • Maintain the element of surprise
  • Make it a collaborative effort
  • If you're in a long-distance relationship, turn up the heat
  • Hygiene is Key
  • Remember the extras: Tips on Accessories for Your Sex Doll Gift
  • Final Thoughts

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If you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom and show your partner how much you care, why not consider buying them their first sex doll? Whether you identify as a man, woman, or non-binary, and regardless of your sexual orientation, there's something undeniably alluring about giving your partner a tantalizing new toy to play with.


At SxDolled, we're experts in the field of high quality sex dolls, offering a diverse range of options to suit any taste or preference. From male dolls to models designed specifically for homosexual couples, as well as an array of stunningly sexy female sex dolls, we have the most sex dolls and everything else in between that you need to take your gift-giving game to the next level.


Whether it's a special occasion like a birthday, anniversary, or simply a way to add some excitement to an otherwise ordinary day, we've compiled the ultimate guide to help you navigate the process of buying a sex toy for your significant other. So buckle up and get ready to learn everything you need to know about choosing the perfect sex doll for your partner.

Key Takeaways

How to purchase a sex doll for your partner:

1) Do Your Research: Before buying a sex doll, research your partner's preferences and desires to ensure you choose the right customization options.

2) Your Gift Shouldn’t Be A Carbon Copy Of You: Avoid replicating yourself in the sex doll; tailor it to your partner's unique desires and fantasies.

3) Maintain The Element Of Surprise: Keep the gift idea a surprise and subtly discuss turn-ons and fantasies with your partner.

4) Make It A Collaborative Effort: Explore the catalog of sex dolls together and discuss the features that excite both of you.

5) If You're In A Long-Distance Relationship, Turn Up The Heat: Surprise your partner in a long-distance relationship by sending them a piece of clothing or lingerie, and be present during the doll's delivery.

6) Hygiene Is Key: Invest in a water-based toy cleaner and lube for the sex doll to ensure cleanliness and longevity.

7) Remember The Extras: Enhance the experience by including accessories like pre-lubricated vagina inserts or a vagina heating rod for added pleasure.

Do your research

Before diving headfirst into the world of sex dolls, it's important to do your research and ensure that you're making a purchase that your partner will truly appreciate. While you may think that you know your partner's tastes and preferences, it never hurts to double-check and gather some additional information.

Of course, you'll need to be subtle about your reconnaissance efforts. As you peruse the endless options for customizing your sex doll - from implanted hair and eye colour to breast or penis size, nipple colour, soft skin, and bikini line - you'll want to have a clear understanding of what really turns your partner on. 

You'll want to look into your material choices, I always recommend high quality TPE dolls and medical grade silicone dolls are they are made of the highest quality materials in the sex doll market right now. Both are excellent materials for producing love dolls, as both are very high quality materials that are safe for the human body. A silicone sex doll isn't just another average sex doll, with proper care, a silicone sex doll can last a lifetime. Mid range sex dolls are also a viable solution. These dolls are typically made of a lower quality TPE or silicone and on average only last up to 3-4 years. Finally, please do not settle for a cheap sex doll, just don't. Most of these doll's will be advertise as a TPE doll or silicone doll but you will receive a less than mediocre doll made from latex or some other harmful chemicals. These doll's can usually be found on online marketplaces such as Ebay, Amazon or Aliexpress or on scam websites. Comparing TPE and silicone, a TPE sex doll is generally cheaper than a silicone sex doll mainly due to raw material costs.

Your gift shouldn’t be a carbon copy of you

One key piece of advice to keep in mind is to avoid creating a carbon copy of yourself. After all, the goal of buying a sex doll is to introduce a thrilling new element to your sex life, not simply to replicate what you already have. If you're a man buying a full size sex doll for your female or male partner, for example, resist the temptation to choose a smaller penis size out of a sense of competitiveness. Similarly, if you're purchasing for someone who loves breasts and you happen to have a sizable pair yourself, don't assume that your sex doll needs to have similarly impressive assets.

Ultimately, the most successful gifts are those that are tailored to the recipient's unique desires and preferences. A sex doll is an opportunity to explore a seductive and kinky world of experimentation, so don't be afraid to be bold and daring in your customization choices. Keep your partner's preferences front and center, and let your imagination run wild as you create the ultimate toy to enhance your sex life.

Maintain the element of surprise

You don't want to spoil the surprise and reveal your gift idea to your partner before it's time. Although it's tempting to directly ask your partner about their desires and fantasies, you should approach the topic in a more subtle way. Begin a conversation about turn-ons and fantasies, but don't make it feel like an interrogation. Bonus points if you can incorporate this into a sexy bedroom discussion.

Make it a collaborative effort

While telling your partner about the gift idea will give away the surprise, it doesn't mean you can't make it a joint project. Consider exploring the catalogue of the most realistic sex dolls at SxDolled together, discussing each one's realistic features and what turns you both on. Select your dream breast size, nipple shape, and bikini line together to make the experience more intimate and arousing.

If you're in a long-distance relationship, turn up the heat

If you're in a long-distance relationship, gift-giving can be even more difficult. However, the anticipation of a full size doll arriving at their door can be incredibly arousing. You can build the excitement by sending them a piece of clothing or lingerie that they like to see you in. When the sex doll arrives, be on Facetime or Skype to witness their reaction. Draw it out to increase the excitement and provide instructions on how they should dress their sex doll. When they can't take it any longer, sit back and watch as they enjoy your gift. You will feel completely satisfied sexually and emotionally, more than you ever have before. The right sex doll will work wonders for your personal happiness.

Hygiene is Key

Don't overlook the importance of hygiene when it comes to sex toys. Invest in a water-based toy cleaner so that the sex doll can be kept clean and ready to use anytime. It's also crucial to use a water-based lube to prevent damage to the sex doll's skin. Never use an oil lube or silicone lube with a sex doll (or any silicone or TPE sex toy for that matter).

For a more detailed article on cleaning sex dolls, check out our article "how to clean, maintain, and repair every inch of your sex doll".

Remember the extras: Tips on Accessories for Your Sex Doll Gift

While the sex doll itself is the main attraction, don't forget the importance of accessories to enhance your partner's experience. Paying attention to the details will show your thoughtfulness and care.

Consider going the extra mile by including accessories to maximize your partner's pleasure. If your recipient isn't the planning type, a pre-lubricated vagina insert is a great option for convenience. For an even more exhilarating experience, a vagina heating rod can be used to heat up the sex doll's vagina or anus, providing pure, unadulterated bliss.

By including these small but important details, you'll ensure that your partner has everything they need to indulge in their new sex doll to the fullest.

Final Thoughts

To conclude, buying a sex doll for your partner is an exciting way to enhance your intimate life. By researching their preferences and avoiding replication, you can create a unique and thrilling experience. Maintain the element of surprise and consider making it a collaborative effort. In long-distance relationships, the anticipation can be intensified. Remember hygiene and include accessories for maximum pleasure. With thoughtful consideration, a sex doll gift can bring excitement and fulfillment to your shared experiences.


By taking on board the advice in this sex doll buying guide, you've saved yourself countless hours reading and digesting repetitive information shared by sex doll owners and manufacturers across the internet.


At SxDolled, our goal is to make the shopping experience as stress-free and convenient as possible for our customers. By prioritizing customer satisfaction, we are committed to helping our customers make informed decisions about their purchases and providing support and assistance throughout the entire shopping process. We're also always happy to share insightful information and help you identify the right sex doll for you.


Forget Dutch wives, real sex dolls are a simple solution to meet your needs physically and emotionally. Whether you require a curvy or slim sex doll or a busty or flat sex doll, there is a sex doll out there for you and if there isn’t we’ll simply customise one for you! Spice up your sex life, buy sex dolls and sex toys online with us today!


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