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How To Use A Sex Doll


How To Use a sex doll

April 05, 2023



  • Unboxing and Assembling Your Lifelike Doll: A Crucial Task
  • Best Practices For Maximum Pleasure When Using A Silicone Or TPE Sex Doll
  • Using Lubricant For An Enhanced Experience
  • Maintaining Your Sex Doll: Ensuring Longevity And A Realistic Experience
  • Dressing Up Your Doll: Exploring The Fun And Fantasy Of Clothing
  • Accessorize Your Love Doll 
  • Experiment with New Looks and Hairstyles for Your Love Doll
  • Enhance The Experience With Perfumes & Colognes
  • Final Thoughts

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Congratulations on your purchase of a lifelike sex doll! You are about to embark on an exciting new journey that will provide you with a unique and gratifying experience. Investing in a silicone wife or TPE partner is an excellent decision, as she offers you the opportunity to engage in a fulfilling relationship and sexual exploration. Unlike traditional relationships, with a lifelike doll, you are free from societal expectations or pressures related to your career, financial status, or physical appearance. You can simply be yourself and enjoy what your sex doll has to offer.

However, in order to fully reap the benefits of owning a sex doll, there are important things you should know. Useful guides on how to use a sex doll are rather scarce on the web, so, I thought I should change that. Just like any other product, here is a user guide to help you get the most out of your purchase. In this case, it is crucial to understand how to use a sex doll to explore its full potential and maximize your pleasure and sexual satisfaction.

Therefore, without further delay, here are some helpful tips on how to use your lifelike doll to enhance your sexual experiences and derive maximum pleasure and sexual satisfaction.

Key Takeaways

How to effectively use your sex doll:

1) Unboxing and Assembling: Carefully unbox and assemble your sex doll, ensuring proper handling and using sharp tools for safe unboxing.

2) Best Practices for Pleasure: Enjoy vaginal and anal intercourse with your sex doll, and explore other sexual activities. Consider using lubricants for an enhanced experience.

3) Maintaining Your Doll: Regularly clean your sex doll with water-based lubricant, and perform timely repairs to extend her lifespan.

4) Dressing Up and Accessorizing: Have fun dressing up your doll with clothing and accessories to explore fantasies and role-play.

5) Experiment with New Looks: Change up your doll's appearance with different wigs and hairstyles.

6) Enhance the Experience: Use colognes and perfumes on your doll's clothing, not directly on her, to add a sensory element to your experience.

Unboxing and Assembling Your Lifelike Doll: A Crucial Task

Congratulations, your dream girl has finally arrived! It's time to contain your excitement and focus on the crucial job at hand - unboxing and assembling your new companion. Once your neatly packaged doll is delivered to your doorstep, it's important to carefully transport the package to a room with enough floor space for the unboxing process.

Before diving into unboxing, it's essential to prepare for the transition of your lifelike doll. Your fully packaged sex doll could weigh anywhere from 15 to 60 kilograms (including the weight of the packaging). To make things easier, I recommend enlisting the help of a friend or to tip the delivery guy for assistance. Especially if you are disabled, elderly, or live in a 5th floor walk-up apartment, you should be prepared for how you are going to move this package.

Once you've positioned the package in your chosen room, carefully cut the tape along the seams of the box with a box cutter or knife. Be cautious not to cut too deep and risk damaging your new favorite sex partner. After opening the box, it's important to wash your hands to avoid smudging or leaving marks on your doll's skin. Using a sharp cutting tool makes unboxing easier. More so, it's much safer as it eliminates the need to use excessive force that could lead to slippage and accidentally cutting through your doll. 

Next, it's time to unpack the sex doll's head. You'll find it wrapped in a separate bag, resting on the upper thighs of the body inside the box. Gently remove her and place her on the floor beside the sex doll's body, which you can remove next.

Any other accessories that come with your doll, such as a closet sex doll storage system, clothing, and cleaning tools, should also be removed and set aside. Once these items are removed, the box will be left with just the body of your sex doll resting on a blanket.

With all other items out of the way, it's time to lift your doll out of the box along with the blanket. While doing so, wrap your arms around your sex doll and lift her out of the box, placing her gently on the floor. Connect the body of your love doll with the head, and then put on the wig to complete the assembly process. Following these steps will ensure a successful unboxing and assembling of your sex doll.

Best Practices For Maximum Pleasure When Using A Silicone Or TPE Doll

Now that you have assembled your realistic sex doll correctly, you can focus on enjoying her company and pleasures. These female dolls are designed for companionship and sexual pleasure, so it is important to follow the best practices to ensure maximum pleasure and excitement. Here are some tips to help you have a fantastic experience with your sex doll:


Every female sex doll we sell comes with a fully functional vagina. To fully experience sex dolls, you can enjoy vaginal sex with her. Sex dolls usually come with fully functional vaginas and anuses (some even with oral orifices) that are designed to give pleasure, so you can emulate the experience of vaginal sex with a real woman. Simply position your doll in a way that arouses you, then penetrate away, in the same way you would with a real partner. The friction and pressure combined will make the experience feel like sex with a human partner. You can enjoy vagina sex is missionary, doggy style, or whatever position that you feel is best.


Have you had fantasies about anal sex? Lifelike sex dolls have mind-blowingly realistic and tight anal orifices. Better yet, your sex doll is amazing because it's always willing try something kinky, whether that be anal sex or oral sex. 

Many men fantasize about anal sex, but finding a willing sex partner can be difficult. With TPE or silicone sex dolls, you can enjoy many sessions of anal intercourse with ease. These dolls are designed to be super-realistic, super tight, and intensely gratifying. It may feel strange or unworthy to make love to a doll at first, but allow yourself some time to get used to the body and extremely realistic feeling of a sex doll.


If you are wondering about the feasibility of receiving oral sex from a TPE or silicone doll, the answer is yes. However, it's important to note that the experience will be different from that of a real partner. Nevertheless, oral sex with a sex doll can still be pleasurable and enjoyable. Additionally, you don't have to worry about your dolls gag reflex. A sex doll blow job can be pretty damn fun.


Don't let fear or reservations hold you back from exploring your passions and kinks. Your lifelike doll may be delicate, but they are built to be treated like real people. You can hold and caress your doll, experiment with new positions, and even get a bit rough. You can enjoy the realistic touch and love to the fullest, and even play out your sexual fantasies with your sex doll.

However, it's important to avoid extreme usage that can result in damage to your sex doll. Always check for any signs of damage before engaging in rough play. Slow and steady is the way to go when in doubt.

Other than the above tips, it is essential to remember that high quality sex dolls are built to be treated like real woman. You can hold, hug, and caress your doll, or try new sex positions and get a bit rough. Most realistic sex dolls can be posed in most positions, from doggy style to cowgirl. You can also explore your passion and play out your fantasies. Some people even have threesomes with their partners and include their sex dolls in the sex act. Just keep in mind to refrain from extreme usage that can result in permanent damage.

Lastly, watching porn while having sex with your sex doll can really amplify the excitement and pleasure around having sex with her.

Using Lubricant For An Enhanced Experience

Many users prefer to use lubricants to enhance their experience with their realistic sex dolls. When using lubricant, it's important to opt for a water based lubricant to prevent damage and staining. We have a very popular water based lubricant that you can pick up straight from our store along with the purchase of your new sex doll or you can opt to pick up other popular options that include KY Jelly and Astroglide. Additionally, I recommend staying away from silicone based lubricants and oil based lubricants as these could permanently damage your sex dolls. 

Remember to apply the lubricant prior to penetration and avoid using too much, which can result in a sticky and messy session. If you require additional lubrication, try adding in a small amount of warm water instead to rejuvenate the dried-up lubricant.

Maintaining Your Sex Doll: Ensuring Longevity And A Realistic Experience

For sex doll owners, it's important to maintain the cleanliness and condition of your sex doll to ensure an optimal experience. Like most sex toys, dolls require regular upkeep and attention. By taking proper care of your doll, you can enjoy a more realistic experience and extend her lifespan.


To maintain the cleanliness and sanitation of your doll, you'll need two essential tools: a vaginal irrigator and a cleaning solution. You can use the vaginal irrigator by filling the bulb syringe with soapy water or clean warm water and inserting it into your sex doll's vaginal opening, or any other orifice. Then, squeezing the bulb to flush out any nasties that were stuck inside.

If you have a removable vagina, cleaning is even easier. Simply remove the vagina and take it to the sink or into the shower (using a handheld shower head) for cleaning.

Using a condom during sex can also simplify the cleaning process. However, it's not necessary as cleaning your sex doll usually only takes a few minutes.

For simple cleaning, when deciding between a removable or fixed vagina, we recommend you opt for a removable vagina instead of the standard fixed vagina. This option is available when customizing your real doll. Whereas, a fixed vagina is more aesthetically pleasing, a removable one is much more convenient. Thoroughly wash the exterior of your sex doll's vagina, paying close attention to her vagina's labia folds.

A few more tips include ensuring your doll is clean and dry after every session, removing any tight clothing or material that could stain your sex doll's skin and be wary to get into all it's crevices (especially if you have a BBW sex doll).

Lastly, if you want to powder your doll before storing her away, stick to a pure, cornstarch-based powder or baby powder. Make sure your love doll is dry before applying the powder to avoid a pasty mess. For those who enjoy taking care of their dolls, there are all-in-one sex doll cleaning tools and kits available for purchase on the market.

Maximizing the Lifespan of Your Realistic Doll through Timely Repairs

Your sex doll's durability depends on various factors, such as the frequency and intensity of use. Despite their natural longevity, you can extend the life of your sex doll by carrying out timely repairs. With regular use, wear and tear is bound to occur, and it’s vital that you promptly address any abrasions or tears that occur on the arms, legs, armpits, elbows, face or any other part of your doll due to friction and pressure.

For a more in depth explanation, check out our article on "what factors affect the lifespan of a sex doll". 

To this end, most vendors offer repair kits attached to your doll or sell replacement parts for easy repairs. However, if you don't feel comfortable doing it yourself, you can always contact the seller for assistance.

Dressing Up Your Doll: Exploring the Fun and Fantasy of Clothing

Adding clothing to your sex doll's appearance can enhance her beauty and persona, giving her a unique and alluring vibe. You can explore your wildest fantasies by dressing her up as your favourite porn star or sexy lingerie model, a movie star, cheerleader, stripper, police officer, or even your favourite video game character.

Dressing up your sex doll can offer an opportunity to role-play and act out your most erotic desires, making the experience more meaningful and exciting. You can also buy makeup items and accessories to complement your doll's outfit, just as you would for a real-life partner.

When shopping for clothing, consider your doll's measurements, size, and figure to determine the perfect fits. If your sex doll is petite, stores catering to petite women are ideal. If you're unsure about the size, you can try out a few inexpensive articles of clothing or use safety pins to create a flattering silhouette. Buying lingerie for your doll is relatively easy, with many options available in local stores and online.

If you're looking to save money, buying used clothes from local buy/sell groups on Facebook can be an excellent way to get great bargains without breaking the bank. Ultimately, dressing up your love doll is an opportunity to indulge in your fantasies and create a unique, personalized experience.

For a more in depth article, check out our article on "what types of clothing should you dress your sex doll in".

Accessorize Your Love Doll

If you enjoy dressing up your sex doll, adding accessories is an excellent way to take her to the next level. However, it is essential to be careful with the material and weight of the accessory to avoid staining, stretching, or scarring your doll. Bracelets and anklets are beautiful items that you can add to your doll's wardrobe, along with other accessories and makeup such as eyelashes, lip gloss, barrettes, powder, scarves of different colours, lady handbags, earrings, and bangles.

Experiment with New Looks and Hairstyles for Your Love Doll

Your love doll will arrive with a wig, but you can purchase additional wigs to change up your new sex doll's look. Proper care is crucial to ensure the longevity of the wig. You can wash and style your sex doll's wig and even add hair accessories to achieve different looks. A new hairstyle or hair colour can dramatically transform the appearance of your doll.

If you want even more variety, consider purchasing extra high quality sex doll heads or wigs. Most brands offer a variety of sex doll head options, allowing you to enjoy the luxury of two completely different looks for your doll without having to fork out for a new doll.

Enhance The Experience With Perfumes & Colognes

Enhance your sexual experience with your love doll by incorporating the scent of a fantastic cologne or perfume. The olfactory element can trigger intense memories and make for fantastic sex. However, there are specific rules to follow when using perfume or cologne on your sex doll. Direct the spray on your dolls clothing instead of your sex doll herself, as fragrances are generally alcohol-based and not silicone or TPE-friendly. Furthermore, the scent could penetrate into your doll's material and then turn. Further cementing our recommendation not tp spary perfumes directly onto your doll itself, but to spray perfumes only on her sexy outfits to avoid any problem.

Final Thoughts

The key to using your realistic sex doll is to have a pleasant experience, and the tips provided above can help you achieve that. By following the instructions and caring for your doll, you can enjoy using her for several years down the line and have a memorable experience. Caring for your sex doll is just as important as using and enjoying her. The quality of your experience depends on the condition of your sex doll. If she is in optimal condition, your session with her will be equally satisfying. At the end of the day, using and caring for your sex doll go hand in hand with each other. Now that you know how to use a sex doll, go forth and enjoy your new sex doll!

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